gostangs wrote:So he was turned off by that stuff at SMU, but OU has moved up his list? He didnt notice something about OU a few months ago that was much worse?
Really sorry that turned him off since I think it is 180 degrees from every experience I have had or heard while at the school and since graduation. If he reacts that way to every piece of negative news that a very small group can create, then he will be disappointed wherever he does go. Hope you are coaching him in this area. Knuckleheads are everywhere - you just hope they are a small group - which I can say with confidence they are at SMU.
I agree that the OU situation was much worse. What turned him off was not necessarily what happened on campus or in the tweet. What turned him and us off were the comments we read on PF, Scout and Rivals. I posted my experiences at SMU on another site, but when I was at SMU and after graduation, I did experience open racism. Some of it was subtle but it wasn't always. As I said in the post, two years ago I was talking to some of my wife's former students and was called the "N" word on the Boulevard by a member of her student's fraternity.
The other difference between the SMU and OU situation involves timing. The fact that this blew up two days before the deadline to apply did not help. That being said, Saturday morning he and I had a long talk about all of this and he said no matter where he goes he will encounter racists people, but he has been around SMU enough to know that the racist individuals are in the minority and he will not really factor that into his decision. My daughter, however, said she will not apply to OU or SMU.